So...life is stressful.
More stressful the older you get.
So.....my profound advice is that when you have a stressful week /day / minute.... you should have a conversation with a four year old.
You will soon realize that there is nothing more important then the innocence we so often let go of as we get older.
My week has been horrible... deadlines, deadlines, deadlines...but please let me share with you some snippets of conversations I had with my four year old when I have put her to bed that have kept me going:
Monday
Me: Goodnight Katelyn
Katelyn : Daddy, is Miss Tammy sick (Tammy is our daycare provider who got strep this week)
Me: Yes, she isn't feeling well
Katelyn : Oooohhh....Poor thing. I think she will be better in twelve days.
Tuesday
Me: Goodnight Katelyn should we say a prayer?
Katelyn: Yes..you start and then I will go and then you go and then I will go.
Me: Dear Jesus
Katelyn: Thank you for the food
Me: (not quite sure why she is thanking for the food at bedtime but none the less I went with) And thank you for our family
Katelyn : And thank you for our cousins
Me: And Jesus, please make sure mommy gets everything she ever wants
Katelyn: And daddy too
Me: And Katelyn too
Katelyn: And Ashley too......except...well.......not everything she wants because she wants to stay up past bedtime sometimes and she shouldn't get that.
Wednesday
Me: Goodnight Katelyn
Katelyn: Goodnight daddy...do you like Barbie or Hello Kitty
Me: Hello Kitty, do you like Hello Kitty or Tinkerbell
Katelyn: Hello Kitty duh...can we color?
Me: No it is time for sleep, do you like Tinkerbell or Barbie?
Katelyn: I like everything you ask about. So whatever you say, I will say I like them
Me: (because it was a challenge) Do you like Monsters?
Katelyn: NO!
Me: (not willing to let it go) Where do monsters live?
Katelyn: I don't kn.....wait....in caves.
Thursday (tonight)
Me: Goodnight Katelyn
Katelyn: Did you toot, because it smells in here
So...as you can see in the previous conversations, my four year old and I did not solve all of the world's problems this week.
But as you can also see...I laughed and smiled and hugged the cutest 4 year old I know. I realized because of her this week that whether or not I hit my deadlines, or whether or not I was praised by superiors or whether or not I move up the corporate ladder....my four year old just wants to make sure there is hello kitty, and no caves that monsters live in nearby.
Innocence is profound.
Because if I were to tell them that daddy is stressed, they would most likely tell me that Ursula is mean and Ariel is beautiful.....I love my girls.
Those were great! I'm going to print them off to have around to read on one of those days/weeks/minutes.
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